Signs Of A Cheating Husband
Finding out that your husband is cheating on you can be one of the most upsetting and painful things that can happen in your married life. And not knowing if he is having an affair with someone else is equally devastating. Even the thought of your partner being a two-timer really hurts. Both sexes can be guilty of unfaithfulness; however, adultery has some aspects that can be attributable to men than to women.
Statistics show that 85% of the women who have the intuition that their mate is cheating on them are right and 50% of men who think that their partner is cheating are correct. If you are doubtful, then try to consider these signs of a cheating husband:
1. Increase in time away from your home.
• He suddenly has so many excuses to leave the house.
• Short trips have been longer than usual.
• Out of the blue, he needs to go somewhere such as in the gym or at the store.
• They often call to inform you that they will be going home late and they have so many alibis for that – such as he has to finish urgent task in the office or his car broke down.
• There are times when he is strangely unavailable or unreachable while he is at work.
• He spends more time at work or stays at the office beyond the normal overtime period but overtime pay does not appear on his pay slip.
• They have frequent dinner meetings that usually take long.
2. Loss of sexual interest with you
• After having a healthy love life, you notice that he lose interest in having sex with you or you suddenly stop having sex.
• Their sexual interest will change such as he wants sex more often or he introduces new sexual positions and techniques.
• Your sexual intercourse doesn’t seem intimate.
• Sex will not last that long because he may get tired easily.
3. Lessened Intimacy
• He now acts distant and when you attempt to talk about intimate things with him, he clams up.
• He will hesitate to kiss you or touch you as much.
• He will also be hesitant to accept your affection.
• You stop hearing the words “I love you”.
• He will stop complimenting your appearance.
4. Suspicious telephone and computer behavior
• He hangs up the phone when you’re coming close to him.
• He doesn’t allow anyone else to pick the phone up.
• He pays the phone bill by himself and he’s the only one who can see the online statement.
• You discover unfamiliar phone numbers on the phone bills
• At times, he does not answer his phone when you are the one who’s calling.
• He turns his cell phone off when he is sleeping or when he is out with his friends.
• He uses computer alone and does not allow anyone to use it.
• His computer is now password protected and he uses it especially late at night
5. Finance
• He has more ATM withdrawals.
• There are charges on his credit card bills that are unexplainable.
• You see receipts for stuffs that have never been brought home or you have never seen
6. Special consciousness in his looks and in personal grooming
• He uses new cologne or perfume.
• He buys new clothes and always makes himself look attractive.
If you notice that your mate is displaying many of the above-mentioned signs of a cheating husband, then seek for a professional advice on how you can resolve such issue.